(From left to right) Aurora, Kara, me, & Jenny |
Melony (right) and Dayana (left) |
After lunch we had class and I found out about my homestay!! I’m soooo excited! I move in with them on Friday which means I will have to pack up everything in my bungalow and put it in a storage area on campus and then bring a travel bag with clothes in it for the homestays… not looking forward to packing up! I just gotta hope it’ll all fit! But aside from the packing…. I’m really looking forward to staying with a Costa Rican family. I think it will really help with my Spanish and my look on the culture here. The family I am staying with is also in Finca la Bella.. - which let me clarify. Finca la Bella is a farm which is really really big and people “rent out” the land. They call it renting but they don’t actually pay a rental fee every month. They mainly just pay to buy the land and then keep up with their plants. - But anyways their names are Alvaro Vega (father) and Elizabeth Mata (mother) and their two daughters Adriana (18) and Laura (7). I’m excited to help out with the farm and everything and I’m really interested in helping out to cook a Costa Rican dinner and everything. I think it would be really fun and maybe it could be a recipe to bring back home. They also don’t speak much English that I know of. Apparently the parents do but they are very shy about it.
On a side note… you might be confused about why they don’t
have the same last name even though they’re married. Well…. They do names differently here. The boys are the same where their names are
their father’s last name. But with
girls, they take their father’s last name and their mother’s maiden name. Meaning my name is Alexis Hodges, but if I
was Costa Rican I would be Alexis Hodges Gross.
Gross is… unfortunately… my mother’s maiden name. But that’s how the naming system works
here. And whatever your name is sticks
with you all your life – even once you’re married.
After class we had dinner and then I got to skype with Emily
which was really nice because I feel like I haven’t talked to her in forever
and I’m getting best friend withdrawal!!
After skyping I played cards with the middle schoolers that
are somewhat in my group and that was pretty fun because they are all so
different!! And they act so differently
outside of the classroom of course! They
each have such different personalities… and yes I do realize I just wrote the
word different in four consecutive sentences but oh well. It’s really interesting to see how much they
each have to say.. especially in the classroom.
Although they may not have as many experiences as us, it just goes to
show that there are different cultures just in school. For example, there’s the artsy group, the
jock group, the cheerleaders, and so on, but if I went and talked how I usually
interact with my friends with each one of these groups I would get a different
reaction from all of them because everyone has their own way of using language.
Today in class we talked about how the use of language has
changed over the years, for example, men are more known for cussing on a
regular basis, yet when women cuss it is almost shocking because women are
known to be more polite. But nowadays,
women are starting to talk more like men by saying “shit,” and “damn it,”
etc. But girls especially are starting
to use words that are meant to hurt people as words to talk to their
friends. For example, instead of a girl
saying, “hey girl,” they will say, “hey bitch” or “hey slut.” And the thing is if you’re calling each other
that then why can’t the guys around you call you that as well? This is just another way that gender plays a
role in the language that people use.
Anyways… we have our last day with the kids tomorrow!! I’ll
miss them for sure. They’re sooo cute!!
Good night everyone!
Que duerma con los angelitos.
Sleep with the {little} angels.
Wow - Now that is a blog! Your family sounds great and I am thrilled it is on a working farm. Can't believe you are excited to work on a farm! The things you do when we send you to another country - you even saved the girls from a bug the other night:) You will come back so brave that you can pick up the kitty kill on the back porch now :)
ReplyDeleteLove you - going to miss reading the blog everyday while we are in Cabo - going to try and find wifi daily.
Love you the most - shhh don't tell Peyton
Yayyy I made it on the blog!! Haha I miss you soooo much, and I'm definitely having best friend withdrawls too! Can't wait for you to come home :) love you <3
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